Father Stands up to Homophobic Bigot Daughter for Disowning her Gay Son

Mariahxxx

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It's a real shame that so many people are living their lives viewing the world with such scorn and contempt. Judging people that think differently or question the perceived status quo. They claim to be people of faith and followers of jesus yet they condemn and judge and live life with conditional love. This is an AMAZING letter that a father wrote to his daughter:


"A dad disowned his daughter by sending her a handwritten letter condemning her action in rejecting her son, his grandson.

He was upset and angry that she had thrown her son, Chad, out of the family home, when he “came out of the closet” and told her that he was gay.

This is the full wording of the letter:

Dear Christine,

I’m disappointed in you as a daughter. You’re correct that we have a “shame in the family”, but mistaken about what it is. Kicking Chad out of your home simply because he told you he was gay is the real “abomination” here. A parent disowning her child is what goes “against nature.” The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that “you didn’t raise your son to be gay.” Of course you didn’t. He was born this way and didn’t choose it any more than he being left-handed. You however, have made a choice of being hurtful, narrow-minded and backward. So, while we are in the business of disowning our children, I think I’ll take this moment to say goodbye to you. I now have a fabulous (as the gays put it) grandson to raise, and I don’t have time for heart-less B-word of a daughter. If you find your heart, give us a call.
Dad

Fortunately, not all parents react in the same way to the news that their child is Homosexual, Lesbian, or Transgender. Last month a mother-to-son letter was posted on Facebook. When Michelle Conway McClain found out that her son Zach had admitted he was gay on his Facebook page, she posted him the following note:

Zach
I was surprised by your Facebook post where you came out. I want you to know that I love you unconditionally. I love you with my actions, not just my words. I’m so proud of you. You are the bravest person I know. I’ll fight for you always. Your sexual orientation does not define you. You are still the boy who forever won my heart. The only thing that concerns me is the number of empty soda cups and tea bottles in your room. Throw them away before ants come inside. I love you always.
Mom"
 
Well, some people do not like gays and that's about it and althought she threw the boy out the house she has to take care of him until he reaches the age of 18.
 
Fake
 

Mariahxxx

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the letter is fake????????? you know this how???????????

I know it's hard for you to imagine that someone could be so tolerant of a gay family member and see them as naturally gay and not perverted by choice, but come on Zippy.

its on many news channels and I googled it again here is one of the sites newsmax http://www.newsmax.com/TheWire/dad-disowns-daughter-gay/2013/10/04/id/529257

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Either the letter or whole story is fabricated or the father is such a phony asshat that he would publically publish this as to embarrass his daughter. The mother doesn't agree with the gay lifestyle for religious reasons or otherwise and probably does not want her son smoking the balogne pony in her house. That is her right. While it is not something that I would do with my child, it was not the grandfather's place to try and publically humiliate his daughter into accepting a lifestyle in her home that she does not agree with. If it is in her son's home it is none of the mother's business.
 

Mariahxxx

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Amazing that you justify and support a MOTHER kicking her child out of the house because he is gay, yet you disapprove of the father's decision for outting his daughter as a bigot towards her own child and kicking him out of the house?????????? Really??????????

I applaud the father standing up and showing people that it's not ok to be prejudice

and once again you prove my point. I did NOT say the word religion anywhere, but YOU did. perfect example of the destrcive simple mindedness of religious people. shame on him for publicly trying to embarrassing his daughter for being a hateful bitch, but not for a mother kicking her child out of the house for being gay. typical religious horseshit.

people don't realize the suicide rate for gay teens. they are shamed by their bigoted parents and shunned and disconnected from their family. you rave about your scientific education yet don't believe that people are born gay.
 
And so is the daughter the grandfather's child. His agenda does not give him the right to tell his daughter how to run her home. Yes, I generalize and rationalize quite often. My bullshit meter is strong and people lie to me all of the time. After the first 10 years in my profession and having the truth to come out only in court, I decided that most people will lie and it is up to them to prove otherwise.
 
you sure this woman is not related to Vladamir Putin, man I tell you the standards for Nobel Peace Prize nominations are getting lower and lower nowadays SMH
 
people don't realize the suicide rate for gay teens. they are shamed by their bigoted parents and shunned and disconnected from their family. you rave about your scientific education yet don't believe that people are born gay.

Unfortenately nobody can not do anything If and when the parents hate their homo kids.

A true Christian do not throw the kid out of house even if he looks like Freddie Mercury.
 
A religious parent has the right to not condone any lifestyle within their home that contradicts the teachings of their faith. And I will be damned if because anyone thinks the lifestyle is perfectly natural will force the parent to accept the lifestyle within their four walls if they are the one paying the bills.
and it is not the grandfather's duty to chastise her for it. Your intolerance of what religious people can and cannot accept as a matter of conscience will not stand. Even the US military understands such a concept.
 
And excuse me for construing the words faith and Jesus in your first post to in any way be referring to religious people. lol
 
Congrats to that father he did what he had to do : Act as a human being, as a family member to his grandchild.
The daughter got what she deserved
 

Mariahxxx

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the father acted absolutely within his rights and his obligation as a parent to not tolerate hate and bigotry from his child. He didnt force her to take him back, he took his grandchild in and disconnected from his daughter.

I am blown away by your blatant admissions of intolerance of your religion, which from everything I read is all about loving everyone and not being judgmental. I would love to see the big book of fairy tales you read from and compare it to others. I bet yours has things crossed out and notes written along the edges of the page that are your interpretations that coincide with your ridiculous bigoted beliefs.

I feel sorry for you counselor that you see people this way. I honestly think You Might wanna get back into your faith a bit because you clearly are NOT being christ-like with your views.
 
I am being perfectly consistant. Stop bringing up Jesus Christ when you have made so many insulting and blasphemous comments on this board that it is impossible to count them all. Should gays be assaulted or denied loans housing or jobs because of their lifestyle ? Of course not. Should people that believe through their faith have to condone it within their home if they don't want to be exposed to it? Hell no. I am sick and tired of you who has no faith or respect for religious people trying to cram this stuff on people that believe it is an abomination and that which Christ and the Bible teaches is an abomination.
There are things in life that are a matter of conscience and that cannot and will not be infringed upon. Even the United Nations has declared that human beings have a right to thought conscience and religion exactly what you are trying to deny people of. You are not normal Milano and no matter how much pussy you eat in your lifetime will not make it normal.
 
Bottom line, the mother is a piece of shit. Cold, evil, unloving bitch
 
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